Change starts in the Mirror

This is a post I found from one of my living heroes.

“A man decided that he would change the world.
But, he wasn’t successful.
So he decided to change the country.
But, he wasn’t successful.
So he decided to change his community.
But, he wasn’t successful.
So he decided to change his street.
But, be wasn’t successful.
So he decided to change his family.
But, he wasn’t successful.
So he decided to change himself.
AND HE WAS SUCCESSFUL.
AND HIS FAMILY CHANGED AND THEY AFFECTED THEIR STREET.
AND THE PEOPLE ON THE STREET AFFECTED THEIR COMMUNITY.
AND THE PEOPLE OF THE COMMUNITY AFFECTED THEIR COUNTRY.
AND THE PEOPLE OF THE COUNTRY AFFECTED THE WORLD.”

Grand Master In Ho Lee has spoken about how we can’t change others until we change ourselves and this just goes right along with that!

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“I play one on TV!”

Are you a leader or do you just “play one on tv?” Here’s a quick way to tell the difference!

Real Leader:

  • You take ACTION to help others
  • You inspire others by telling your “story”
  • You set BIG goals and keep working until you get them
  • You take weekly (if not daily) actions to LEARN more about leading
  • You take your RESPONSIBILITY to help others and improve your community seriously

“I just play one on TV” Leader:

  • You wear the “cloths” of a leader but don’t do the WORK
  • You talk the talk but don’t walk the walk of a leader
  • You don’t mind leading when it’s easy but you’re the first to bail when it gets hard
  • You’re not interested in improving yourself as much as you’re interested in people thinking your cool

So which are you??

Could you return the favor?

When I’m not sleeping, hanging out with my family, or working at another business I’m spending my free time coming up with ways to help make YOU better.

I spend my time figuring out how to be a better teacher for you. I spend time figuring out how to improve the quality of my students. I spend time trying to come up with new and exciting ways to inspire my students to not just strive to be great Black Belts but strive to continue to improve themselves daily through martial arts training.

I don’t have a wife. I don’t have kids. I don’t have a girlfriend (much to my mothers disappointment). If I’m not hanging out with my family (parents, brother, sisters, and my adorable niece and nephews) I’m working on improving my students. Often, I feel that I care more about my students getting their Black Belts and improving themselves then they do.

So here’s my question…Can you return the favor?

Could you take a few minutes and think about what YOU could do to help me become a Master Instructor? I’m 2 years away from being able to train for Mastership but I need help. I need students who are dedicated to training at a HIGH level of EXCELLENCE, students who are committed to training towards 3rd, 4th and 5th degree.

A Master isn’t just a person who’s trained for “X” number of years. It’s a person who’s become an instructor of instructors. If you want to help ME train for my next rank, just as I’m helping YOU train for yours, then help me reach these goals:

  • 200 Students training for Black Belt and Beyond
  • 50 Students dedicated to Leading here at the school and in our community
  • 10 Students learning to become future instructors through the CIT program

So again I ask…can you return the favor?

My Leadership Grade

There are two main parts of leadership.

Leading by example. 

You can’t be a leaders unless you step up and do the things your talking about. If you don’t walk the walk no one will care that you talk the talk. You need to represent what your trying to lead. You need to become the change your looking for.

When it comes to leading by example I’d give myself an A, maybe an A-. I try to eat the way I want my students to eat. I’m trying to work out the way I want my student to work out. I read, I learn, I help. I’d give myself a pretty good grade on this aspect of leadership.

Getting things done through the effort of others.

The second part of leadership is getting things done through the effort of others. Leaders have to inspire others to action. Martin Luther King Jr. wouldn’t have been a fraction of the leader he was if he didn’t mobilize thousands of people to action. You can only get so far as a leader with examples, eventually you need to get people behind you to make a difference, to follow. At this aspect of leadership I give myself a C-.

So my mission is to keep leading by example but now to step up as a leaders and do the harder part, inspiring others with a vision and have them help GET THINGS DONE!

Take the “S” word challenge!

My mother banned my siblings and I from using the s-words. We would have NEVER thought of using the actual s-word, so this ban pertained to “shut-up,” “stupid” and “sucks.” I’m not sure when this rule started but even today, at the age of 29, my mom does not put up with the use of these words around her. It’s a rule I’m happy to live by.

Language is an important part of life and we often don’t pay attention to the words that we use in our lives. My mother ALWAYS did when we were growing up (and even today). Think about the use of these s-words. Are they used in a positive manner? No! They are always used to tear down or to display anger. They are words used only for negative impact.

Why should we leave these words as part of our daily language? Should we be leaving a place in our lives for the negative, for tearing down others? I challenge you to remove these simple words from your vocabulary and see if it makes a difference. Take this simple step towards taking language that tears down out of your life. Don’t use these s-words with your family, your friends or co-workers. Stop tearing down with these harsh words and start building people up!

Give it a try!

Parent’s MUST read!

   Parents:

   This is an excellent article from an award winning teacher named Ron Clark. After reading the article I suggest going out to Summer’s Stories and buying one (or all) of his books. He’s got some GREAT ideas and PROVEN solutions to dealing with kids. This is the kind of stuff we want to EMBRACE in ATA Family Academy!

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